Q: What do people wear to these
A: Usually the men wear nice jeans or Dockers. Women dress a little
sexier. Think of our parties as a place to wear things you always wanted
to wear but can't going out to your normal local bar. About ¼ to ½ the
people dress in theme with the exception of Halloween, when about 90%
dress in costume for that party.
Q: Isn't this cheating?
A: Swingers consider this a lifestyle choice, not cheating. Cheating is
deceiving your loved one. Most couples swing for the experiences they
can enjoy together, not to find something different from each other.
Only couples and single females are permitted to attend Off Nights
Q: Do we have to be a married couple
A: No. We have couples who are married, couples who cohabitate and
couples who are just dating. We even have couples who started out just
dating, got engaged at an Off Nights party, and are now married.
Q: What if I run into someone I know?
A: You might feel awkward at first but you are both there for the
same reason & have the same things at stake if someone found out so both
of you will remain discreet you will just have one more person that you
know to talk to.
Q: What is the orientation for and
A: The orientation gives you a background of how & why we started
this club as well as membership info & lifestyle info. We will give our
advice on how to approach the lifestyle & explain more about what our
parties are like.
Q: Are most of the couples who
attend experienced in the lifestyle?
A: No. We have several new couples at each party. Because we have a
no-pressure atmosphere couples & females feel very secure that being
inexperienced is very much o.k. at our club.
Q: What if we don't want to do
anything at the end of the night?
A: That is perfectly fine. We recommend you set your own pace, take
your time. Not everyone "hooks up" at each party.
Q: Do we have to participate in the
contests and/or games?
A: No. We are a no-pressure club - that goes for all aspects. The
games & contests are just for fun. Just watching is perfectly o.k.
Q: What kind of music does the DJ
A: We really try to keep a variety. We play music from today back to the
70's. We also play some country & line dance songs. We always take
requests. We play a equal mixture of slow & fast songs as well.